| GayAndProud 2005-11-27, 6:29 pm |
| On Sat, 26 Nov 2005 17:50:32 -0800, "Cliff" <cje20@hotmail.com> wrote:
>
>Tim, I guess we diverge a little here. You credit Uni with a mind where I
>credit him with sort of a dim feeble consciousness somewhat on the order of
>a domestic turkey.
>
I guess you guys just don't get it. Tim & Uni (and their dozens of little
imaginary sock-puppet identities) are desperate manipulative gay-bottoms.
It's how they get attention from other men. As long as you reply to them
you are giving them just what they want -- attention from men. Something
that they can't get in real life because they are too afraid, too insecure,
and too immature. They go in search of an audience where there is no other
gay-competition, where it's easy to find men to manipulate into their sad
little psychotic closeted-world online (without ever letting any of them
know why they are really there).
I've dealt with gay men like this everywhere that I I've tried to find
decent gay men online, but this is all that's out there. Sad, gay,
socially-immature, mentally-immature, basket-case gay-bottoms. They are
masters at the art of manipulation, they've been at it their whole lives.
You can't win their game. The only way to win is by not playing it.
Keep playing their desperately manipulative psycho-game and they'll keep
winning -- every time.
The only way to deal with a desperate gay-bottom is to just walk away and
pretend they don't exist. They'll eventualy go in search of some other men
to manipulate into their desperate need for attention from men. Hopefully,
one day, they'll become mature and healthy enough to accomplish that in
real life instead of wasting the time of unsuspecting men online. But don't
hold your breath hoping that they will. They've found all that they need in
life by living it this way. (Isn't that sad?) By replying to them you're
just helping them to stay that way.
For further information on the machinations of the gay-bottom (and how to
spot them online), you can read all about it here
http://www.geocities.com/koyaanis1/gayglossary.htm under the category of
"Bottom Seeks Top". (There's also valuable information in that page for the
more self-aware hetero.)
If you run into a troll in a newsgroup online you have a 99.99% sure chance
of them being an emotionally and socially immature, closeted, gay-bottom.
But don't blame them completely, your learned-fear and hatred of gay people
have forced them into that role in society -- and now you have to pay for
it. Isn't karma interesting.
You've been educated, now it's time to put that knowledge into practice --
walk away from them, pretend they don't even exist. Just let them know that
they'll have to get the attention from men in a healthy way someday and
then walk away. It's the only solution. Or you'll be giving them exactly
what they want for the rest of their sad psychotic lives. You are
accomplishing nothing but doing both of you a disservice -- wasting your
valuable time while helping them to live out their psychotic and
desperately-lonely lives online.
Get a clue. It's in the link above. Consider it your clue-bat for the day.
You all need to be hit upside the head with one.
p.s. Don't bother commenting directly to me. I won't respond to this post
nor comment further on it. This post contains all the info you need to deal
with the unhealthy situation in this (or any troll-infested) newsgroup. I'm
not a manipulative gay-bottom troll. I have better things to do with my
life. (Like occasionally educating the less-aware and less
emotionally-healthy people online.)
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